ninjas and chickenheads - one more thing: my estranged spouse's grandma died on wednesday and she was the most wonderful lady in the world and if i had a wish it would be that i could be just like her because i'm going to miss her so much and i can't believe that anybody could be surprised that a sick ninety-six-year-old lady would die, but i wanted her to live forever because she makes the world a better place.